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I have adhd, chronic pain and other issues that may make me bad at responding to people. I am not ignoring you. If I have not responded to you, or if I have not gotten to do something I said I would, it is NOT because of anything you have done. Sometimes I just do not have the energy to reply to people even if I look to be online, or I may be busy with something irl. Feel free to ping me to remind me if I haven't gotten back to you in awhile or if there is something I have been missing.

I am the host of an OSDD-1B system with mixed origins. If you don't know what that means, basically, my brain got so stressed that it split itself up into other people and now they hang out in my head. Sometimes they help out with stuff and emotionally support me, other times they can literally take over and handle things in my place, though we aren't very good at doing that since I'm so used to being the only one "fronting", so to speak. For more information on systems as a whole, you can go to More Than One. If you want to know more about the other people in my system personally, then you can see the shrimp 🦐 button in navigation.

I typically type a lot and over explain things, leading to walls of text. These can be reduced down if you really need me to get to a point, but my mind tends to wander and may not be able to easily make sense of a topic. This also means that I may end up with spelling errors or grammatical mistakes, though I usually try to fix these before they get sent.

I try to use tone tags where applicable, but I also enjoy CAPS LOCK, key smashing, Randomly Capitalizing Words in The Middle of Sentences, and using formatting to bring across tone. This may be a bit non-sensical at times, so if you need clarification for something I've said, feel free to ask for it.

If we are not already close, please do not direct message me or friend me unless it's for a specific question or moderation purposes. I'm not good at carrying conversations or attempting to do small talk, and doing these things with people I don't know very well is anxiety inducing. If you do decide to message me, please let me know in the first message what you are messaging me about, so it will be less stressful!

If you want to become friends with me, you can do that through talking with me publicly or in servers, where conversations don't have to be held up by me alone and we can all contribute together. I like talking about my interests or learning about things going on in other people's lives, so I'll probably chime in sooner or later.

I will not tolerate people talking about me or other people behind my back. It has torn apart too many friend groups of mine in the past. Please be CLEAR and COMMUNICATE about any feelings or difficulties you are having so I can do my best to accommodate and figure out disagreements. If I find out you are gossiping or lying about feelings I Will Not Be Able To Interact With You.

if possible, avoid mentioning the irl killing/harm of bugs or other animals by humans around me, unless it's related to hunting or fishing. I love animals dearly and I really can't deal with people hurting them for no reason.

I don't handle imagery of IVs/needles going into skin or injuries in sensitive areas (throat, inside of mouth, wrists, eyes, etc.) very well, as they give me intrusive thoughts.

I'm uncomfortable with irl drug abuse, smoking, and drinking, and would prefer it not be talked about or brought up unless for something important.

please do not talk about suicide or self harm around me

gross subjects or potty humor make me feel sick

unexpected loud noises and rapidly flashing gifs give me headaches